Recruiting has changed
If you are working from advice that is a few years old,
some of it is now wrong.
The timeline moved
NCAA Division 1 tightened its rules to stop programs contacting athletes
in their early high school years. Each sport has its own date before
which a Division 1 coach cannot hold recruiting conversations with you.
If a Division 1 program goes quiet, that is usually a coach following
the rules rather than a coach passing.
Division 3 and NAIA programs are not under the same restriction and can
talk to you now. So can Division 2, on a different timetable. If you are
waiting for permission to start, you are probably waiting on a rule that
does not apply to most of the programs on your list.
Either way the early work is one-directional. You can write to a coach
long before they can write back, and they keep those notes.
The transfer portal changed who you are competing with
Roster spots that used to go to high school seniors are now often filled
by experienced college athletes moving between programs. A coach filling
a position may be choosing between a graduating senior and a player with
two seasons of college minutes already behind them.
That is a real headwind, and the honest response to it is to widen the
list of programs you are talking to rather than narrow it.
What still works
- Keep contacting coaches. The rules limit what they
can send you, not what you can send them.
- Research more programs than feels necessary. The
right fit is frequently a school you had not considered.
- Go to their camps. A college ID camp puts you in
front of that specific staff, on their field, for a whole day.